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The Mystery Method was developed mostly in the Los Angeles
club scene. But many of us live in small towns that are unlike
LA. Just for reference, the small town where I've developed
these tactics is a college town that is at least an hour drive
away from any "city." Anyway, in a small town you have your
choice of only a few good venues and you'll see the same
crowd out at these venues on a regular basis. As a result, I
believe that sarging in a small town has some differences
when compared to a big city club environment.
The first thing to do is determine what venues you want to
sarge. Day game will have lots of similarities to day game in a
major city, so I'm choosing not to focus on day game. In night
game, you need to pick the right venue. Obviously you want a
target-rich environment. Expect to get a large turnout of HBs
for any "ladies night" based event. The problem with this is
there will be a large number of other guys out on these nights.
By picking the right little bar, you'll be able to have a good time.
There is a major downside to smaller venues. If you turn into a
wallflower, it will be very obvious to everyone there. As a
result, if you are having an off night or not enjoying being at a
particular venue, bounce before you become part of the wall.
Ideally, you will find a couple different venues worth sarging.
To keep the bar staff honest, don't be afraid to let them know
that you are bouncing venues. Also, if you need to keep
bouncing all night, go back to the venue at which you started. If
the bar staff knows you just bounced to a different venue, they
will welcome you back to their venue, no problem. Personally, I
have 3 different bars I hit regularly, and tend to go into each
bar twice a night. That way I'm seeing a variety of potential
targets.
The key to being successful in a small town is being aware of
your reputation at all times. You likely already have a
reputation in your town. Anyone moving to a small town should
be aware that a reputation is formed really quickly and is very
hard to change once established. So always be aware of the
reputation you are developing. Your reputation is either a DHV
or a DLV. You can choose to develop a player reputation,
however I find it doesn't attract the sort of HBs I'm interested
in. Personally, I attempt to be the most social guy in the venue.
As a result of seeing me in other sets, I find a category of HB
wants my attention. As a result, I always have numerous
targets who are looking forward to meeting me. Also, be aware
of the female player in a small town. If you spend too much
time around HBs like these, you will get a firm reputation that
will make it very hard to develop attraction with HBs who aren't
as social. HBs in a small town have reputations too, so being
with you has to improve her reputation also.
Obviously, you have to go open sets. Likely inside this set,
there is someone who knows who you are. Ideally you use this
to your advantage, creating an insta-wing. The reason your
reputation is again important is that someone in the set may
know who you are, though you don't know them. I've had
obstacles basically drag off a target because of my reputation.
I don't think I had ever met anyone in that set before, but they
knew someone who knew me. Additionally, since the number
of venues is so small, someone you have actively gamed
before will be watching you in this new set. As a result, running
similar routines on a regular basis will hurt you. Some students
of the game have very similar interactions with lots of HBs. If
you develop a reputation for having a very similar interaction
with every HB, it will hurt you. This is addressed by being
creative, and by making sure you have solid IOIs before you
move into A3. While in A3, qualify very well. As a result of
qualifying, the HB will feel unique and special. As a result, your
interaction with her will go well.
Personally, I think attraction is a bit different in a small town.
Everyone is either climbing up or falling down a social ladder.
As a result of knowing people in common, you can either climb
the social ladder based on who you associate with, or you can
fall down the social ladder. HBs are on the same ladder as you
are. In general pre-selection means you refer to some HBs in
your stories. However, in a small enough environment, the HB
you are now interacting with may know that HB. So choose
your pre-selection material carefully. If being seen with you
improves her social standing, she is more likely to want to
associate with you. I find that being outgoing in a small town
will get you places. I'm known for connecting people, thus I
serve as a bridge on that social ladder. It means that people in
general are drawn to me because of what I can do for their
reputation. Who you choose to help will also form your
reputation.
I focus my game primarily on social networking. To become
the person people go to, you need to have an alpha status in
the community. This means your reputation precedes you as
being able to provide useful, good answers to people. This is a
very slow climb to the top. You can attempt to AMOG the
current alpha to lower his status. This is a short term fix, so
personally I don't recommend using any of the really harsh
AMOG tactics in a small town; long term, this will lead to an
asshole reputation. Instead, AMOG in a more subtle way.
Allow the AMOG to look like a fool and his reputation will
suffer. This will improve your social status. Be the guy who
breaks up fights, not the guy who starts them. This tactic to
dealing with AMOGs will improve your social standing in the
long run. As a result of using good judgment, you will become
more alpha.
Peacocking is another aspect of the game which is different in
a small town. If you replicate a Mystery look, you won't blend in
at all. However, in a small town there are some guys who have
a good grasp of fashion. I always attempt to dress in the top
10% at any venue I go to. This means buy some good shirts
and pants, but don't go too crazy with 10 necklaces and 3 rings
and crazy hats. It isn't congruent with a small town
environment. As a result of the smaller population, you'll see
the same HB at lunch a week after you meet her. So you
always have to look good, including grooming and clothing.
When you go out on a Saturday night, you can get dressed up
for a night out, but you won't be congruent if you have a good
selection of clothing for going out and then wear old
sweatpants around town before 7pm. I've bumped into my HBs
at restaurants, Walmart, the bank, the grocery...you get the
point. This means I always look decent. If I'm not in the mood
to at least look decent, I don't go out.
I'm a believer that reputation really matters. If you aren't
discrete in your interactions, it will cause you problems. I don't
discuss women I meet with my close friends. I don't discuss
studying the game. Instead, I attribute the transformation in my
life to other things which have happened. I use friendly preselection
as permitted, but I never kiss and tell. I never brag
about my ability to build attraction with anyone. I refer to
everyone as my friend. This means the guy I met 5 minutes
earlier is my friend and the HB I slept with 2 months ago, she
is also my friend. I don't use any derogatory words to describe
women or people. I never call someone a slut. It's obviously
important for an HB to believe you won't talk about her. But
you accomplish this in a very different way than you may
expect. This means from the moment I enter a set, I don't use
any words to label people. I have friends, no enemies and no
awkward interactions. As a result of how I describe others, the
HB determines that I'm discrete.
I've made my share of mistakes. Since I sarge at bars, getting
a drunk HB to comply with kino is easy. Even if you don't close
her, you will develop a reputation for being touchy. This isn't
because the HB didn't enjoy the kino. Instead, it's because
other people are watching you kino her. So learn to kino, but
don't overdo it. There was a night where I kissed 3 different
HBs and got 3 numbers in the span of 2 hours. While I
qualified each HB, anyone else watching saw me interacting in
a sexual fashion with too many HBs too quickly. So I now avoid
kissing HBs while at the bar. I'll happily kiss them once we
bounce. I haven't closed that many HBs, but the reputation I've
developed would imply that I have closed lots. I believe this is
a result of bouncing. So when you bounce with an HB, don't be
too touchy feely as you leave. Walk out as friends, not like you
just got her to pull. As a result, your reputation will remain
solid, and so will hers.
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